tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6202846350780876509.post2876962120469580321..comments2010-08-31T15:08:38.190-07:00Comments on The Date Project: VanityKrissyBellhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18018827130715971120noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6202846350780876509.post-4981786069089169342009-10-20T02:17:16.210-07:002009-10-20T02:17:16.210-07:00Vanity=Excessive pride: you don't compliment i...Vanity=Excessive pride: you don't compliment it. That way you aren't falling into the trap of being appreciated for stroking an ego. Don't determine his vanity...determine what he is slightly insecure about and compliment that, there is so much more value in being acknowledged for that which you don't shine than what you already think/ recognize that you do. Kind of a double edged sword...compliment the vanity or the insecurity. I am vain about doing anything for anyone, I don't need recognition for that. Say a little something about my music and that does wonders.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6202846350780876509.post-71498494766323036732009-10-19T23:38:43.121-07:002009-10-19T23:38:43.121-07:00determine a guy's vanity?
Oh, like we care......determine a guy's vanity?<br /><br />Oh, like we care...get on your knees and you've got us.<br /><br />Srsly, tho, we're all animals. Compliment our strength, our 'size', our prowess. Make us believe you're putty in our hands/mouths/grip, and you're halfway home. <br /><br />If a guy has obvious physical flaws, compliment him more. If he's fat, tell him how GREAT he looks tonight, how handsome. We won't believe you, but we might think you're crazy enough to believe yourself, and that helps, too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com